Dear Love Dachshund,
I’m a single skeptic looking into Internet dating on a friend’s advice. Will some real connection pan out, or will it just be something I do for kicks?  (Either one is fine.)

Dear Cancer,
Do I detect the protective, “I don’t care” armor you Cancerians wear – much like we dachshunds sport our gleaming fur – when you sense that rejection could be part of the deal? The AstroTwins tell me that Cancers hate to feel vulnerable and will do anything to avoid it. Dear Cancer human, we all deserve love, but it often requires risk. Even as an adorable mini-dach, I’ve learned that I stand a better change of getting kibbles or cuddling if I trot right up to a person and avail myself. Step out of your Cancer shell and don’t hide. Try the Internet, but don’t use it as an excuse not to mingle face-to-face. Attend some events where you feel comfortable (a hobby group, a book reading) – but not so safe that you already know everyone. Don’t hang in a clique, which you Cancers are quick to form. We dogs know that if you want to stand out from the pack, you should lead it! Take a leadership role in a community or social group. You’ll feel more secure with an excuse to contact people and chat ‘em up. Make sure you have a long list of hotties to dial!

Dear Love Dachshund,
I'm a Cancer and I'm dating a fabulous Leo. He's the best guy ever and I love him dearly.  But I'm torn: should I relocate to be with him? I love my life the way it is, and don't want to break up with him but don't think I'm ready to give up my independence. Help!

Dear Cancer,
Now that’s a dilemma! The Cancers I know are homebodies who hate to leave their comfort zones. Commuting is too upsetting for your natural balance. But is your reluctance about your “independence,” or just avoiding change? The best route is to imagine yourself 10 years from now. If you don’t try this relocation, will you regret it? And if the relationship doesn’t work out, will you always wonder “What if…?” If the answer is yes, pack all your cherished belongings and try it for a year. You can always move back if it doesn’t work out. Nothing ventured, nothing gained!

Cancers are also shy and keep a lot inside. Have you discussed this with your Leo? Leos are ruled by the Sun, and they can forget that the world doesn’t revolve around them. Though they can be bossy, they also like to please their mates, to feel like heroes. Open up and share how you feel. Who knows? Maybe if he knows how much you love your current lifestyle, he’ll come your way instead. Leo is an independent fire sign, so he may also be cool with the commuter arrangement. For Cancer, home is where your stuff is. Bring a few of your favorite things to his place and leave them there. It will help you feel rooted in the meantime.