Who says temptation should be avoided? The Sun blasts into fiery Sagittarius for a month, making it hard for us to contain our passionate desires. The zodiac’s Archer is half-horse, half-human, symbolizing our own internal divide. While we can aim for our highest truths with those lofty arrows, we can’t deny the wild, animalistic force that also teems within. Ignoring one or the other always brings a high price. Instead of paying unnecessary karmic fees, strive for a balance of both. There’s a thin line between love and lust. Why not enjoy both responsibly?

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Since October 8, loveplanet Venus has been retrograde (moving backwards). While this may have brought a few exes out of the woodwork, it also stirred the proverbial pot and made us think harder about what we REALLY consider to be a great relationship. We said consider, not condemn. We’re hoping you didn’t make any sudden moves. There were some surprising breakups during this Venus retro phase…Courtney Cox and David Arquette, Christina Aguilera and Jordan Bratman.

It’s easy to blame the other person when a relationship doesn’t work out, but it takes two to tango. With both Venus and Jupiter turning direct on Thursday, a journey into our subconscious patterns could end up being a fantastic voyage. Reconciliations can be reached with greater ease and clarity in the days ahead.

How about extending a second chance to someone who kinda DOES deserve it?

Everybody wants a happy ending, especially when there are kids involved. Hopefully couples in rocky relationships can seek some counseling. Paging Dr. Phil. Dr. Phil?

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It’s easy to talk the talk, but can we walk the walk? Communication planet Mercury moves into Sagittarius this week. Truth and integrity are now at a premium–without these qualities, relationships tend to sizzle, then fizzle. If we’re making promises but not holding true to them, this is the week to make an important shift. Maybe we’ve bitten off more than we can chew, or promised something we can’t actually give. It happens, but clearing the air is a must before we can move forward to the next phase of our relationships. International affairs, multicultural connections, and vacation romances are highlighted. Who says long distance can’t work? For those who find “The One” overseas (or across state lines), keep the faith!

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No one could blame you for going gaga this week. With the Sun, Mercury and Saturn in romantic Libra…plus a New Moon in Libra on October 7, intoxicating love is in the air. No need to rush. Libra’s energy is all about the old-fashioned courtship. Enjoy the process of getting to know your prospective partner. If you’ve been in a long-term commitment, there’s always room to get reacquainted. So maybe you’ve woken up next to each other in the same sleeping positions for twelve years? Assume nothing and ask questions with “beginner’s mind” as if you were talking to a new friend or stranger. You’ll be amazed by what you discover and by how much you’ve been missing out on by taking certain things for granted.

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Do we hear wedding bells chiming in the distance? The Sun begins its annual, month long tour of marriage-minded Libra, putting us all in a couple-y state of mind. Forget about running off to Vegas to be wed by an Elvis impersonator. Stern and slow moving Saturn is also positioned in Libra this year, cautioning us to look before we leap. The Final Rose Ceremony will come in due time, but there’s no need to rush to the altar…or even to label a budding connection. Enjoy the “getting to know you” phase. Embrace the power of the old-fashioned courtship ritual. Gentlemen callers can say goodnight on the porch this week, and no one will be worse off for it.

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Loveplanet Venus enters Scorpio this week, and plants itself there for an extended visit,  which lasts until January 8, 2011. Venus is not necessarily comfortable in Scorpio. All that intense, sexual energy can make the gracious, flowy planet uneasy. We can all expect to feel a dose of “come here…now go away” energy this week. Doubling this is Jupiter, which backs into Pisces. The fiery Aries energy that Jupiter was swilling in all summer cools off suddenly. It’s time to draw back and assess our feelings. This is not the week to make any sudden moves, even if our libidos are raging for someone besides our significant others. Those hormonal surges WILL be strong, but they aren’t necessarily the indicator of a soulmate’s presence. Would we have strong, healthy children with the people who turn us on this week? For sure, but we’ve reached a stage of evolution where “survival of the fittest” is not necessarily as relevant…and we CAN go beyond the callings of our inner caveman or cavewoman when selecting a hearty mate.

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The moment of truth has arrived. A luminous full moon in Sagittarius puts our feelings in the spotlight, and we just can’t avoid spilling the beans. The barrier between our thoughts and our verbal expression has officially dissolved, and it might get messy if we aren’t careful.  Suppressed emotions don’t always come out with the greatest clarity…and then there’s the fact that tact is not Sagittarius’ strong suit. We recommend some advance editing before you deliver any speeches, slam any doors, or press “Send” on a lengthy “where do you see this relationship heading?” email.

In fact, if you can wait until Version 3.0 of your emotional processing, all the better. First, scrawl out your raw expression in your journal…and, please…don’t leave this lying around where your love interest could find it. Get that therapist, cool-headed friend, or personal guide on the horn, STAT, so you can sift through and distill your core truth. By the end of the week, you’ll be ready for that heart-to-heart. Whether you’re entering, exiting, or improving the state of your relationship, it’s possible to do this all with love–as long as you’ve had help from a great editor.

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Who else is addicted to “The Real Housewives of (insert city)”? There ain’t no shame in our game about it. So, we were tuned in full throttle this Monday to watch the New Jersey season unfold.

Let’s just get the spoiler out of the way right now: Danielle is a Leo.

What other sign would be so hopped up at the thought of fame, living vicariously through her daughter’s walk down the runway?

“I’ll be with her every step of the way,” said Danielle, who couldn’t turn down a chance to pose for a photo taken by the ex of NY Housewife (and Taurus) Kelly Bensimon.

Honestly, we feel for her daughter. The girl is what, 14, and already she’s being steered towards overemphasizing the importance of her looks. She seems like a grounded, smart, girl who has to be her mother’s mother.

Oh Danielle, stop being such a vain Leo,and embrace your more regal qualities. Stop making your daughters sit in as advisors on your crazycalling. Carve out your own niche instead of trying to turn them into cash cows in eight-inch heels.

We seldom get this fired up about reality stars, but we hate to see two bright, beautiful girls forced to grow up so quickly because their mom is so immature. Danielle’s antics this week exemplify the shadow side of the Leo woman. We do hope she can turn it around and stop the drama addiction her sign falls prey to. But, from the previews, it looks like more clashes with Tauruses Teresa and Jacqueline, Pisces Dina, and Virgo Caroline. Hell hath no fury like a Leo woman scorned!

The Sun enters restless, flirtatious Gemini this week giving us a case of wanderlust (wander + lust). Whether single or spoken for, our eyes are sure to be roving. Hey, we’re only human. Looking isn’t the same as cheating, now is it? That’s the $20,000 question this week. It may be time to draw some looser lines in our relationships so that we’re not suppressing our natural urges to appreciate a finely chiseled, Grade A specimen that passes by our line of vision.

For the single souls out there, mastering the art of the hookup could be the most fascinating game. How far is too far? Should you order a la carte or return to the buffet of a “friends with benefits” relationship? Gemini’s energy is spontaneous but can also be a bit shortsighted so it’s important to do some additional planning before, say, hopping in the sack with a key business contact.

For those wondering where best to draw the line, read up on Oxytocin, the bonding hormone that is released when a woman it all hot and bothered. If you’re gonna play the game, you might as well know what the biological rules are.

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It’s a hands-on kind of week, as a new moon in Taurus amps up our sensuality. The power of good-old-fashioned romance is not to be underestimated. Save the bump n’ grinds for the “Sex in the City 2” premier, and opt for the unbeatable basics: kissing, handholding, slipping perfumed notes into bags and briefcases. We’ll all be craving affection, whether single or spoken for. Pampering ourselves with pedicures, hot stone massages, and hair treatments can keep that hunger from getting too great (and thus making us needy or overly touchy-feely on dates). Mercury, which has been retrograde in Taurus since April 18, turns direct again this week, dissolving stubborn communication blocks in our relationships. It’s been tough to see eye-to-eye for many couples and getting locked in righteous indignation has been an issue. Now, we’re able to vocalize feelings without blaming or drowning out our honey’s diverging opinion. Agreeing to disagree dissolves tension immeasurably.

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