Victim? Vixen? In control or out-of-control? The debate over Pisces singer Rihanna has been a hot one for the last few years. And fuel has just been heaped onto that fire with a leaked copy of her new song “Birthday Cake,” an unlikely duet between her and Taurus ex Chris Brown, who was charged with beating her three years ago.

This week, four planets are visiting Pisces, the zodiac’s hazy, confusing and oft-contradictory 12th sign. The Sun, messenger Mercury, boundary-blurring Neptune and yesterday’s new moon all gathered in Pisces, the sign of secrets, soulfulness, suffering and the subconscious. What’s real? What’s an illusion? What makes sense? The Pisces pileup has us questioning everything. That can make for a heady and head-spinning week.

I (Ophira) certainly felt that way when I heard “Birthday Cake” yesterday. I was at a North Carolina university giving a speech on body image and women’s empowerment (my other longtime passion — see www.loveyourbody.org) when I heard the song. Feeling especially sensitized to the subject matter, I was taken aback by Brown’s X-rated opener: “Girl I wanna **** you right now/Been a long time/I’ve been missing your body.”

Huh?

Pisces is the sign of karma. It brings the past back around for examination, healing and recovery. Under Pisces’ influence, secrets spill out into the…

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Did you fail to properly express your sentiment on Valentine’s Day? The Sun moves into Pisces this Monday, extending a planetary do-over. Forget about saying it with flowers. The poetic energy of this monthlong Pisces phase wants a handwritten card, a personally-dedicated playlist of “our songs,” and meaningful trinkets that speak right to the souls of our beloved. On Tuesday, a new moon in Pisces encourages us to go deeper in our relationships. Being a source of emotional and spiritual support for the ones we love is the ultimate form of fulfillment now. Still looking for Mr Goodbar? Check out Katherine Woodward Thomas‘ genius manifestation manual for love, “Calling In The One.” Both AstroTwins can personally attest to the power of this book as we each met our husbands shortly after finishing our work with this tome. Joining a creative or spiritual group can also lead to love, or foster a deeper bond for couples.

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Cupid floats in on watery wings this Valentine’s Day. The Moon is in Scorpio all day, an intense and passionate Water sign. Communication planet Mercury sails alongside Neptune in Pisces, ruler of the high seas and our most elaborate romantic fantasies. Think rose petals strewn along a winding path, leading to a lush, canopied bed on a private island (sorry, we just watched “Breaking Dawn, Part I”). But even if your amour resembles the simple townsfolk of Forks, Washington, more than the vampiric Cullen clan (or is as nonexistent as werewolves REALLY are), you can still enjoy a sumptuous, sensual Valentine’s Day under these stars. Treat yourself to a luscious lunch, hit a spa or bring treats into work.

Pisces is the sign of compassion and healing, and Scorpio rules sexuality. This is the year to also…

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Happy Valentine’s Week! Cupid brings some sexy energy to the early half of Tuesday, heralding his entrance with a moon in Scorpio. The seductive vibes could begin with breakfast in bed—and yes, it would be worth it to use one of your vacation days for this purpose. Later in the day, the moon moves into wild child Sagittarius bringing out the passionate animal nature in us all. While we can have plenty of fun behind closed doors, Sagittarius energy is adventurous and free-spirited. Getting frisky in the car or a corner booth is not out of bounds. Venus is in spicy Aries all week, bringing a bold and sassy energy to the mix. We’ll need to temper our aggression, however, so we don’t scare off our Valentines by coming on too strong.

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Cancel the trip to Vegas and send that Elvis impersonator officiant packing. Saturn turns retrograde in marriage-minded Libra this week, cautioning us to slow down and pay attention to due process in affairs of the heart—especially between now and June 25, the day Saturn resumes direct motion. This won’t be easy since loveplanet Venus moves into hasty, impulsive Aries from February 7 through March 5. While the urge to put a ring on it may be strong, that doesn’t mean we should race down the aisle. Enjoy the engagement process, the dating phase, the courtship rituals. If you’re meant to share a Happily Ever After, there’s really no need to rush. A full moon in Leo on Tuesday brings romance to a fulcrum as well. Crushes that have been building over the last six months could explode in a bodice-ripping good time. Try to save SOME of the fun for Valentine’s Day…if you can.

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Love becomes a fantastic voyage this week, so fasten your seatbelt! Dreamy Neptune arrives in its home sign of Pisces, its new station for 13 years. Both Neptune and Pisces are like  poetry in motion, an energy that can lift us to the highest highs and sink us to the deepest depths of our emotions. This voyage of which we speak will not be a Sunday drive down a flat, Midwestern road. If we want to experience the magic of this phase, we must tap into the power of unconditional love, compassion for people’s imperfections, but also, our ability to draw boundaries. Knowing the difference between a dramatic-but-destructive dalliance and a healthy ride on the roller coaster of love is essential. Neptune is the planet of illusions too, so taking time to really get to know the full picture in love is a must for the sake of our own self-preservation. The good news is, this could bring the payoff of a soulmate connection that stands the test of time.

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Mars, the planet of white-hot passion, cools its jets this week as it turns retrograde in Virgo until April 13. The flames may simmer down to smoldering embers, but perhaps this is a good thing. Too much romantic rapture could leave us ungrounded, after all, and hey, we’ve got bills to pay and other people who need a piece of our time. This is a week for following “due process” in the game of love too. Enjoy the lingering pace of the courtship ritual, allow yourself to be wooed, take the time to get to know the object of your affections before leaping into the sack.

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You’re right, he’s right…you’re both right, alright? With the expressive Sun forming a challenging square to uptight Saturn all week, there could be some strong opinions flying around. When it comes to those lover’s quarrels, it’s best to “agree to disagree” rather than fight for domination. On Friday, the sun moves into Aquarius for a month, lightening up the vibes. Hanging out in a group setting does wonders for our love lives. Cohost a dinner party with your partner or plan a winter getaway with other couples. Let friends play matchmaker if you’re single. It’s always ideal when you can check people’s references.

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Monday’s full moon in Cancer brings domestic issues to the fore. Time to talk cohabitation, or somehow creating more togetherness in the space you share. If you’re single this full moon could bring someone into your life who is good enough to bring home to mother. Nice guys and girls finish FIRST, under the spell of this full moon. Still crushing on a childhood sweetheart? Ping him or her on Facebook. Time might just be on your side once again.

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Fantasy and reality sail together in harmony this week, thanks to a trine of dreamy Neptune and structured Saturn. Don’t dismiss a “meant to be” connection as too good to be true. This is a week where it’s possible to have both love and dependability all in one package. If you’re in a relationship bring more art, poetry and music into the mix. The colorful bells and whistles are what bring richness to romance. Taking a dance class with your sweetie is more than just a fun extracurricular, it’s an activity that can improve communication as you navigate where you stay in (and fall out of) step with each other.

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